Best Motovational Speech Ever

The late, great Jimmy Valvano.

Every day: laugh, think, be moved to tears

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ePX1kqkFH6s

Awaiting on You All

Awaiting on You All
by
George Harrison

You dont need no love in
You dont need no bed pan
You dont need a horoscope or a microscope
The see the mess that youre in
If you open up your heart
You will know what I mean
Weve been polluted so long
Now heres a way for you to get clean

By chanting the names of the lord and youll be free
The lord is awaiting on you all to awaken and see
Chanting the names of the lord and youll be free
The lord is awaiting on you all to awaken and see

You dont need no passport
And you dont need no visas
You dont need to designate or to emigrate
Before you can see jesus
If you open up your heart
Youll see hes right there
Always was and will be
Hell relieve you of your cares

By chanting the names of the lord and youll be free
The lord is awaiting on you all to awaken and see
Chanting the names of the lord and youll be free
The lord is awaiting on you all to awaken and see

You dont need no church house
And you dont need no temple
You dont need no rosary beads or them books to read
To see that you have fallen
If you open up your heart
You will know what I mean
Weve been kept down so long
Someones thinking that were all green

And while the pope owns 51% of general motors
And the stock exchange is the only thing hes qualified to quote us
The lord is awaiting on you all to awaken and see
By chanting the names of the lord and youll be free

I Am Not Macho

I have had several epiphanies of late. For example, I am a rotten boyfriend/companion/mate who should not be let near any decent female lest said female wants to be disappointed and made miserable in a relatively short period of time. But that is not the epiphany I am writing about.

I am not macho. And if you are reading this, you are not macho. Period. Case closed. Real men do not read anything other than Guns And Ammo, Sports Illustrated, or ESPN The Magazine.

I write a blog that most of the time laments lost love, so I am the most unmacho of us all. I am practically a girl.

Do not mention Fire In The Belly. Do not clutch your copy of Iron John. Sit
your soft little ass down and listen up. Understanding macho means that you
don't possess it. I have proven myself to be the creampuff that I am by writing
this piece. (I'm wearing a diaphonous, powder blue cotton print shirt and peach panties as I type.)

Ernest Hemingway, you say? Wrong. Ernest lived a very macho
life and wrote some very macho stories. But Ernest threw it all away by
blowing his head off with a shotgun. Very unmacho. Real men do not commit
suicide. Real men grit their teeth and take it bill after bill, war after war, tumor after tumor. You don't greet Death, you punch him in the throat repeatedly as he drags you away. I think John Wayne said it best when he said, "Fuck Death and the lung cancer he rode in on."


Macho is a very slippery thing. You don't read about it, you don't write
about it, you don't even know the correct spelling of the word. In a vain
attempt to keep some semblance of masculinity, I didn't research the roots
of the word while writing this article, but I can only assume that "macho"
comes from "machismo," which sounds a hell of a lot like machine. Being
macho implies a tough, hard, blocklike approach full of pistons and rods and
axles and other big steel-type stuff.


From time to time, people try to use macho as an image builder. George Bush tried it for eight years, to no avail. The last macho president we had was FDR. FDR -- a man stricken by polio, stuck in a wheelchair, fighting the Nazis all the while smoking 3 & 1/2 packs a day. "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself!" Yeah, and staircases, of course. And soccer and dancing.


I think the death of macho is easily located on a very recent map. Sometime
in the late '70s-right around the time the Village People released "Macho
Man" and Barry Manilow sang "Copacabana" and Robby Benson was mewling his
way into the hearts of teenage ultra-virgin, men made a serious mistake. We
started TALKING to each other. We stopped punching each other and began
discussing why we wanted to punch each other. I'll bet my right nut that if
I had done some research, I would have found a dramatic decline in facial
cuts and brain contusions starting in 1977. Now we're supposed to be
sensitive. We are supposed to share our feelings and cry at funerals and
care about our hair. We're, in short, supposed to be women. Hello, my name
is Shirley. Touch me in the morning.


I believe in equal rights. I believe that women should get equal pay for
equal jobs. I believe women should have control of their bodies and be in
positions of power. I believe we should have the same size shoulder pads in
our suits. But I also believe that men should be men and women should be,
well, women. Women should be soft and smart and mysterious. And men should
have their own tools. I pine for the sheer stupidity of the old macho days,
when men would brandish hammers and build huge, bulky cars that sucked up
gas and tore open the ozone layer and crushed small animals beneath totally
useless but totally cool-looking tail fins. When men were apes with good
shoes and a dental plan.

John Wayne, John Huston, Bill Holden, Bob Mitchum,
Clark Gable, Babe Ruth, Lee Marvin, Sam Peckinpah. Men who drank and fought
and puked and ate raw meat right off the bone and drank some more and fought
some more and puked again and kept on drinking. Men who died of massive
heart attacks or sudden brain seizures or who just plain fucking blew up.
Men who had cancer six or seven times. Men made out of leather.


My dad was one of these men. My dad once cut off his finger with a lawn mower. He drove himself to the hospital smoking a Winston on the way. My dad's theory was simple: no pain-no fucking pain. My dad smoked 4 packs a day, ate raw bacon for
breakfast, lunch, and dinner. One night in 1985, he ate a big steak dinner
with a side order of bacon and extra steak fries. He ordered some coffee,
sat back, lit up a cigarette, and exploded.

I don't wanna hear about Arnold Schwarzenegger. Even Arnold caved in. In
Terminator 2, he was all of a sudden Mr. Caring Guy, protecting the kid and
hoping the earth wouldn't end. Bullshit. There was even a sequence at the
end of the movie where a huge truck full of flammable liquid tears down a
highway for about 3 minutes and then doesn't blow up. A sign of the times if
ever there was one. Every real man knows the 1 golden rule of macho movie
making: if you see a truck on screen, blow it up. In Thelma & Louise, the
women saw a truck. What did they do? Susan Sarandon pulled out her gun and
blew the truck way the fuck up. Another sign of the times. Arnold's tromping
around praying for the earth to save itself and Ms. Davis and Ms. Sarandon
are drinking and shooting and screwing their way all over the macho west.
Citizen Kane? A masterpiece. But every real man knows it would have been
better if a huge Mack truck with the word ROSEBUD emblazoned on the trailer
drove through the front gate of the mansion and then KAA-POWWWWW!

Another movie matter I'd like to get off my girly little chest: asses. Part
of this new male code has men baring their butts on screen the way women
used to do. Mel Gibson, Kevin Costner, Michael Douglas, and of course,
Arnold. Hey if I wanted to see Kevin Costner's ass, I would've married him.
You never saw Bob Mitchum's ass. I am not in the movies, and I
can guarantee you that you never see my ass on any screen but if you do, it
will not be shaved. It will be hairy and hoary and very, very white.

Our macho movie idols have changed forever. No wonder they end up baring it
all. Listen to the names--Mel, Kevin, Michael, Arnold. In the old days movie
stars had real names: John, Bill, Duke, Buck, Chuck, Rip. Kevin sounds like
your skinny Irish cousin with the big Coke bottle glasses and a heat rash;
Mel, the guy in charge of aisle five at Woolworth's. ("Excuse me Mel, where
are the light bulbs?")

It's getting very bad, boys. We don't blow up trucks anymore. Hell, we don't
even drive trucks anymore. We drive simple little Japanese cars with air
bags. In the old days we used to rip out the seat belts and fly through the
windshield ready for action. "Thrown from the car." Remember that phrase in
accident reports? Always the sign of a very macho driver.

We seem a little more sorry, a little more plump, a lot more ladylike around
the edges. If you really want to reclaim your macho self, if you really want
to be a macho, macho man, stop reading this blog.

If you are still reading, you probably need a little more help. Forget
Robert Bly or "Fire In Your Prostate." Don't go on a Male-Bonding
Self-Discovery Weekend, which is just another term for Circle Jerk as far as
I'm concerned. Here, instead, is a guide:

BALLS, A.K.A. COJONES: You should have several. Preferably brass or steel.
Extra large.

CRYING: Never. Ever. Over anything. Not death in the family, not a bullet in
the chest. You may tear up ever so slightly in one eye only when watching a
favorite sports legend retire. You may tear up in both eyes only when
kicked, accidentally or on purpose, in the COJONES.

KISSING: see "SPORTS"

HUGGING: see "SPORTS"

SPORTS: Once all men within reach are dressed in a team uniform, it is
perfectly acceptable to kiss and hug and grab each other's ass. This is
probably because all men are latent homosexuals and prefer male company to
female company. But if some guy points out this fact to you, punch him
directly in the throat. (Optional retorts: "Prefer this!" or "Fuck You!" or
"Shut the fuck up!"

HEALTH: Never go to the hospital or visit a doctor. If you have a stroke,
keep drinking and act like you prefer to use only one side of your body. If
you cut off a limb while using a power tool--so what? That's why there's
duct tape and staple guns. If someone tries to drive you to the hospital
after a heart attack or maiming, punch him in the throat. (Optional retorts:
"Drive This!" or "Fuck you!" or "Shut the fuck up!")

DIET: meat, cigarettes, meat, booze, meat, and coffee. In case of aneurysm
or alcohol-induced coma, see "HEALTH."

FIGHTING: At all times, over anything. Never hit a woman. Or a child. Or a
bus. Never hit a priest until he takes off his collar. (If it's the pope,
wait until he removes the large hat.) Clergy will often provoke a punch in
the throat with their "violence doesn't prove anything" pontifications.
(Optional retorts: "Prove this!" or "Fuck you Father!" or "Shut the fuck up,
Padre!")

DRINKING: No falling down. No puking--unless to empty the stomach in order
to continue drinking. No slurring of words. Tell a few war stories: "See
that scar? I was in 'Nam and I ate a grenade and it blew up in my colon." If
your aim is off due to alcohol, it's acceptable to punch someone in the head
or solar plexus.

SEX: You're probably too drunk or just plain stupid to have sex but pretend
you get a lot, i.e. "You should've seen me last night, blah, blah, blah, blah."
Absorb this info and you should be on your way. If you have any further
questions, call 1-800-COJONES. Remember: We're men. Big, boxy, sweaty,
ignorant men. We have penises. Well, we used to have penises. Either way, I
think Billy Martin, the late Yankees manager, said it best when he said,
"Hey, I can drive."

Successful School Programs

My first year as President of Dayton Oaks ES PTA is winding down. I wanted to share with you all a few of the programs of which I am particularly proud.

After School Programs:

PTA coordinated six after school programs for the spring term. Programs included conversational Spanish, Taking Golf After School, Yoga, KidzArt, and Drama Kids for all grades and MindTools STEM for Gr. 4-5. Approximately 100 children participated in these programs. PTA asked parents who registered their children for after school programs to visit the program at least once during the term. PTA wishes to thank the parents who took an active interest in visiting the classes, it was helped make the programs successful. For information contact Debbie Subera-Wiggin at j.wiggin@verizon.net.

Golden Sneakers Walking Program:

Kudos to the walkers who spent their Friday recess periods from March 20-April 24. Dayton Oaks students walked a total of 1035 miles in this year's Golden Sneakers walking program. PTA parent volunteers monitored over 220 student walkers during the spring program. This time students counted their steps with pedometers as they walked the track circuit (about one half mile). The walkers will receive the pedometers for their personal use with their walking certificates. 37% of the student population walked on March 20, the starting day on March 20. The participant percentage dropped to 14% on April 24, the last Friday of the program. Class participation percentages and each walker's distances are still being tabulated at time of publication. The PTA thanks the parent volunteers who generously donated their time to get this program off the ground.

The Dark Parts of Yourself

"Confront the dark parts of yourself. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing."

Playwright August Wilson

Happy Earth Day

Happy Earth Day!

In 1962 U.S. Senator Gaylord Nelson, realizing that very few people were concerned about environmental issues, decided something needed to be done to protect the environment. He initiated the formation of the Environmental Protection Agency and helped to pass the Clean Air Act, the Clean Water Act, and the Endangered Species Act.

Senator Nelson organized the very first Earth Day, held on April 22, 1970. On that day, over 20 million people participated, helping to put environmental issues in the limelight. In 1971,the United Nations Secretary General signed a proclamation establishing Earth Day as an official international holiday.

At my daughter's school, we started our Earth Day celebration yesterday, with the planting of three Redbud trees donated by Mr. and Mrs. David Stadler, owners of Stadler Garden Centers (www.stadlergardencenters.com). These trees, located in the front of the school, are a beautiful addition to our landscaping plan and will help to reduce carbon dioxide in the atmosphere.

To assist our entire community to "Go Green", the PTA provided reusable grocery bags to all students. Please be sure to thank our student Environmental Club (www.follyquartergoesgreen.blogspot.com), our PTA, and our friends at Efficient Home LLC (www.efficienthomellc.com) for supporting this initiative with funds and a presentation to all this morning.

So Long

After thousands of miles of running, trips to dozens of countries, tens of thousands of airplane miles, being dropped, smashed, frozen, doused in both the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans, and after six years of faithful service, my iPod has finally died. Fittingly, it froze on Thunder Road.

So long, travel well, sleep deep.